From age 17 to 23 we are not mature enough to make the decision about what we are going to do in our future, but we want a relationship with a person who will take care of our or anything else. We think we are mature enough. You know the relationship is like a full-time job, a person shares all secrets all the bad things, good things. All of that person's problems are yours all of their happiness & sadness is yours for what? In all that, we forgot we need to make a career for our batter lifestyle. I think in this age relationships not stays for a long time, in the end, it will be ended at some point because at this age we make immature decisions, we do not think about the long term happiness, because our brain want happiness dose, like playing pubg.
I am also a pubg player I played pubg like 9 hours a day! For no reason just for fun, but what it will do for my future noting it will give me temporary satisfaction of some point if I win or something, it is just an example and yeah I do play pubg but in limit now our brain wants that temporary happiness. Another example is that we know studying will make our future more secure better but we don't feel satisfied while studying because our brain do not accept the pressure brain only want that sweet sweet happy things that we do for nothing! I don't say that not to experience that sweet sweet moment but every situation has their own time like relationship will become stronger when you get a real job when you do not depend upon your parents we have the time now this time will not come back what we will do now that presently affect on our future!.
I am not an 'A' student I lost my two years for nothing failed like hell but those situations were the best lessons of my life and now I am not afraid to fail again because failure is not a failure until we gave up. to start a new thing like studying or anything else take baby steps. reading all these is very easy but implementing it in daily life is very hard as per my experience but nothing is impossible. the best example of this is cigarettes, you know the most dangerous habit in this world is smoking and don't get me wrong I don't smoke( nhi tr malch badnam kral) for the first time a boy try cigarette he can't smoke it perfectly but day by day he try it because he finds it as satisfaction in it...and unfortunately it becomes his habbit.....so same thing we need to use...no no we don't need to smoke we just need to try the thing we want to do and make habit of it not like "I will study for 5 hours a day" and believe me you will but not daily because you do not get habitual to this because 5 hours is a huge time..take it slowly start from 15 min a day, then day by day increase it, until you make studying is a habit. when you do not study in a day you will become conscious about it. like a smoker he wants everyday cigarettes because it is his habit or addiction, we can say.
so that is how you take baby steps. In the end, I want to just say that don't get f**ked up with your life at any point. And don't get me wrong it's just my thoughts I want to share it's your life you choose what you want!
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