These days real love had become a fictional part of the stories we watch in movies or plays, and then we wish to have the same kind of love in our lives, but as we don't know the real points of love we are not able to give a proper love which can make someone fall in love with us too. So after studying some of the attraction and love theories by famous personalities, here are some important points which can make someone fall in love with you for real.
The seven important points--
1. Sense Of Freedom -- In today's era one always needs a lover or a close person with whom we can express our thoughts clearly and openly. Everyone needs someone who can give them the freedom to be and live like they want, with love. They want someone who can help and sort out their issues without judgment, someone whom they can talk openly without thinking that my words may hurt him/her or may let them down. so if u can give someone this kind of freedom it would attract them towards your open nature.
2. Kindness and selflessness -- Talking is art if someone really can express it beautifully and kindness in talking is the ingredient of making this art beautiful. You should talk kindly and politely with your love so that they can also understand the things you want to express in a simple and better way. Being selfless is another aspect of this art once should purely respect others' feelings and should be more aware of other feelings more than of own wishes. These points can enhance your talks and can improve the bond of your pure love.
3. Do what is good for him/her-- Doing things for the betterment of your partner, things which can help your partner and can make easy their work, or can cure their health issues, can make them feel better when they are sick or depressed. Can really make someone feel lucky and special to be in love with you. Although it is also necessary for bonding and growth of your relationship with him/her.
4. No offense -- Getting offended too often and fast can lead to major fights and discussions among you and your partner. And it may cause distance in your talks as you get offended whenever your partner tries to tell about their thoughts. One should be polite and shouldn't get offended so that issues can be solved without raising you and your partner apart from another.
5. No greater expectations -- Having greater expectations from someone can cause disappointment in you and then can affect your relationship with someone easily. Because the building of great expectations easily can make you angry if you are not satisfied and satisfaction of personal expectations are not included in pure love.
6. Understanding -- Understanding is a major key to great bonding in love. One should try to understand the feelings and walks of their partner to create a great bond. Pure love always seeks understanding in every for of situation. So being understandable and being understanding should be a great focus in pure love.
7. No taking for granted -- Lst but not the least, taking someone or someone's feelings for granted is a major problem of losing respect, love, dignity, and understanding between lovers these days. So one should appreciate partners' feelings without thinking of them as for granted. As it can change your view of believing in their feelings and can create a sense of conflict in between you and your love.
These are the major parts which if are taken care of can build a great love between you and your partner forever.
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