" In life, every new day brings a new problem."- this is how we perceive the concept of life. But in fact, "every sunrise also brings a new reason that makes life worth living, only if we want to."
What makes living life hard?
You wish you expect, you regret, you love, hate, want, cry, smile - what stays constant?
IT'S "YOU".
Indeed, you can't have control over your emotions. life keeps taking turns likewise your emotions. If there is life, there is gonna be hard times. Those will surely affect you, you can't control that - right? But for how long it can keep on affecting you, is in your hands. All you must do is forget those hard times, overcome them and come back stronger.
"A comeback follows every setback."
When you look back, do you only see the tough times you have gone through?
NO. It is just that when you suffer through something in present, your mind tends to remember only the past sufferings. This makes you feel that your life has been nothing but a series of downfall and problems.
We do have good memories too but it is just that we tend to remember the tough times easily.
THIS IS HOW HUMANS ARE. It is so difficult to know what is wrong with us? What exactly is bothering us?
But do we really need to know the answers to these questions? - not exactly. Rather we should find what makes us happy.
How can we change this misconception about life?
Others will suggest you to fight back stronger or else to vent out your emotions before someone, blah-blah-blah. But the best thing you can do is to FORGET. Like if something has happened which has deeply saddened or demoralised you, you can't turn back time and change it - right? It has already happened. What good it will do if we keep on digging it, nothing. You can't completely stop it from bothering yourself, but you can surely regulate the time and attention you put into it. The lesser the time you take to overcome them, the better it heals.
Some sufferings and issues have no end. There is nothing we can do to stop them. Dwelling and mourning over such issues are entirely worthless. You should leave them right away. Eventually, they will be left behind with time. It is best to prevent them from bothering you.
If you keep on trying to solve every problem, your life will end up finding solutions. So ignore some, forget some and leave some of them to themselves.
You indeed have nothing on your hands except your moods that can be switched for numerous times. All you have to do is keep on switching sad moods to happy ones.
Life gives you a lot to adjust with. The only thing you should never compromise with is your peace of mind. If you feel you will regret not doing something, do it right away. If you feel something will hurt you, stay away from it. If you feel some choices could keep your happiness conserved, keep on continuing them.
The fact is, HAPPINESS is the laziest emotion so far. It will never walk up to you first. You will have to approach it yourself. You take one step, it will take another and eventually, you will meet somewhere halfway. But if you keep waiting for it, it will have to cover the whole route by itself and reach you. This will take time.
So, is living life that hard? No doubt life is tough. But living life with ease is not that hard.
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