"WOMAN," in my opinion, is a word that literally means: W-Wonderful, O-Obedient, M-Mature, A-Admirable, N-Noble. The word woman itself is powerful. It itself defines its adorable qualities. Now, if the word is so powerful, imagine how powerful and graceful is "woman" as a person. So, today we are going to know more about women.
Women are all around us. She is present everywhere in different forms and an essential part of our lives. Like, everything in this world is so connected to her. But people of this world do not know how to respect her. Even in this technically advanced world, people have changed their lifestyle but not their ridiculous thinking.
According to them, she is a tool for all their physical needs and a human being of low standards than men.
Today I will tell you those important things about a woman with the different roles she plays and all the struggles she has to do.
1) ROLE OF A "MOTHER."
The most powerful role she plays is the role of a MOTHER. She is the one who has given you birth. You are alive because she was there in pain for nine months. She is your first breath. Your mother has spent all her life loving you, and she did everything to make you happy. She might not be there when you were happy, but no doubt that she was always present there when you were sad, wiping your tears and crying herself because she can't see you in pain.
All that you've achieved and succeed in today results from her blessings and prayers. The person who did many struggles all her life to make you smile is your mother. She has gone through many situations where she faced different criticisms, taunts, abuses, and even violence. But she is a mother who has always shown you a cheerful face and raised you with all the positive energy, and did the best upbringing.
So, before shouting at her, think for once that she is the one who goes through a lot of situations to see you happy. And think what you are giving her in return. By the way, one thing is obvious here: we can't return even 1% of all the struggles that she has done for us. So, respect her, love her, make her proud, make her feel special, and ultimately your life will be full of happiness. Know well that it's god's grace that our mothers are here with us; every day is a Mother's Day, so celebrate and thank her every day lest you will regret this mistake all your life.
Having a mother is the greatest gift from God, so know her value until It's too late.
2) ROLE OF A "WIFE."
Here comes a person who has spent all her life with you, facing all the trials holding your hand in easy and difficult situations. And she is none other than your WIFE. One and the only person who knows you very well after your mother. She was sweet when you were angry; she was quiet when you were shouting; she was there when you were upset holding your hand; she was there when you were not feeling well, scarifying her comfort to make you feel better and every time from the day of marriage she was there with you, for you, available 24/7.
She sacrificed everything for you to shape her life, her habits, her happiness to make it up to your expectations. Likewise, she did everything to make you happy and convince all your relatives and family members. Furthermore, she sacrificed her career because of your family, even maybe you to want her to be an obedient homemaker. She has forgotten her life in raising children and performing all the household duties.
Even today, she is there with you, as same as before. Loving you, respecting you and your family, convincing everyone, apologizing for minor mistakes just for your sake. She is doing everything for her husband but thinks for once. Are you doing the same? All the gentlemen there, reading this article, never forget that she had left her home, her parents, her everything and chosen this tough and permanent journey only for you and now serving all your family members, tolerating their taunts, abuses, and even your violence. Even now, if you are not giving your best, not respecting her, not loving her, violating her, and not investing yourself in this relationship, So you are on a very wrong path. You’ll definitely have to pay for it.
Having a loving wife is a blessing; not everyone is lucky in this case. So, Be Thankful to god and know her value. Loving and respecting your wife is not a sin, and if you are not doing the same, now that is definitely a sin.
3) ROLE OF A "SISTER."
SISTERS are both Naughty and nice, or we can say, naughtily nice. She is the one who has been raised with you. You have spent all your childhood with her. You've faced together all the trials of life. She might not present here with you today, but all the issues like family problems, which were too hard to forget, were faced by you both together as you together have beaten those ugly times.
Sisters were always there whenever you need any of the relationship advice, when you were already engaged in a fight with someone, and when you were bullied by some senior. She was present there like a teacher giving you advice, asking you why you have caused the fight and standing there like a tiger, fighting from your side respectively. Never forget that she is your partner in crime and has performed every single mistake with you. She is your first friend with which you've shared your deepest secret.
Never make her cry because she was always there with you when you were crying, when you were getting scolded, whenever anything went wrong. She is your sister dude, her heart is so pure, and you don't have any right to break it. Actually, no one has that right on this earth, and you must make it sure. So you should support her instead of giving her orders, talk to her politely instead of hurting and behaving rudely, and you must understand her like no one else.
If your sister is older than you, respect her and if she is younger than you, do the things that'll make her respect you. Be grateful to god that you have a wonderful sister. Otherwise, many people in this cruel world are deprived of this beautiful blessing.
4) ROLE OF A "DAUGHTER."
Now here comes the most beautiful feeling when you become parents. A child is always a blessing. No matter what its gender is. Children always bring happiness to our lives and make it worth living, And here comes a stage when you become parents of a young pretty girl. She is your DAUGHTER, and she is now a reason for you to smile. She is the reason for your happiness and all the success you've achieved because her appearance is not just her presence, but it is now everything for you. This world seems to you unreal, like magic. Life is now heaven for you.
But also, some people are living in their own world full of stereotypes and black minds. They also hate girls and prefer boys and don't give them the proper rights they actually deserve. They have a relation of a parent and child but playing a role of police and a prisoner where police are parents. That prisoner who is going through her punishment of lifelong imprisonment is their so-called beloved daughter. Here these parents are teaching their daughters to suffer, suffer as much as possible because, according to them, daughters are born only to suffer because they have to get married, and again they have to suffer.
So practicing "how to suffer" will give them better results. They don't want their daughters to rise more than their sons and do not let them enjoy freedom. But let me tell all those people who are having this kind of thinking, that here you are highly mistaken. It is just you're misunderstanding and nothing else. Grow up, or I should say that, let your mind grow, and correct your thinking. Daughters are a blessing, and both daughters and sons should be the lifeline of parents. There should be no comparison between a daughter and a son. Each one has its own specialties. What a daughter can do, no son can ever perform that task, and what a son can do, no daughter ever can do that.
Love your daughters because she has taught you to love life and feel happy. She is the reason you are blessed and ever will be. Please don't compare your children ever because comparing would only decrease their abilities. Last but not least, if you are blessed with a daughter, know well that God is pleased with your deeds.
CONCLUSION
So now, you must have understood that what actually a woman is. She is your mother, your wife, your sister, and your beloved daughter. Know her value, respect her, Love her, make her life full of surprises and worth living. She has to do a lot of struggles and go through a lot of situations. She is not weak, but she has to deal.
Sometimes with some situations that are not meant for her, and that is why she seems weak and not capable. But, believe me, She is a blessing, and if you even for once try to understand her, you'll regret all this rude behavior and wrong beliefs. Now, it's time to bring in a better change within yourself unless you'll be repenting your entire life.
I Quote,
"She is a woman; marriage must not be a barrier for her, freedom must be her right, and your support must be her weapon." Unquote.
THANK YOU
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