There was a time when smartness was measured by clothing. Whenever someone wore a suit or a coat for Niden, people would look at him with respect. The man also thought to himself, 'Aha! How smart I am. ' For women, too, clothing and expensive jewelry were the measures of smartness. But we have passed that era long ago. Now, on a hot day, if someone goes out on the street wearing a coat, he is more likely to be laughed at. At the same time, the idea of measuring smartness with men's and women's clothing in daily activities has come out long ago. So the question may be, what is smartness? Smartness is not a separate issue. Many good behaviors and good habits match. However, it is not just a matter of foaming at the mouths of high-ranking people as Sir or Madam, but also of showing smartness in your personality, in your behavior. Smartness is the combination of all the good qualities in a person. Now maybe you sit down to think about what good qualities you have. There is no point in combining many qualities, you have become smart! But no, even if it has good qualities, but it will not happen, it needs to be expressed properly. Oops! It's hard to be smart, isn't it? The funny thing is, but not at all. If you want to be smart, first find out what reduces smartness, and avoid it. Then you will see that you have become smart in the eyes of others.
There is no smartness in imitating others
It is only when a person sets foot in his adolescence on the colorful dawn of life that he begins to realize that there is a thing called smartness. Someone may become adorable to everyone as a teenager, others want to be smart by imitating him. And this is where many people make the first mistake of their way of life. You can never be smart or attractive by imitating others. Must be like your own, basic. Your personality is what you think it is.
Smoking and drug addiction are not the measures of smartness
The first thing that catches the eye of young people as smartness is smoking and drug addiction. Many people think that I saw a popular boy or girl in school or college with a cigarette in hand or taking drugs, I am not busy anymore and I become smart. Wrong, this is the biggest mistake. Taking drugs or smoking is never smart. How can something that pushes you to destruction be a smartness?
Let me give you a terrible example, how would you feel if a person constantly hit you in the face with his dirty, dirty sweat-soaked clothes on your face? What level of the idea would you have about him?
Maybe in anger, you will drag the ancestors of his family into the conversation. When a person smokes in front of everyone, the smokers in the neighborhood feel the same way. So get rid of smoking and drug addiction in time. Such a bad habit will never fall into smartness.
Smartness has nothing to do with love
However, there are many young people who take love as smartness in their youth. There will always be someone with whom happiness and sorrow will be shared, that is definitely a good thing. Such a relationship is also very great. That's why you are smart only if you love if you think so, I'm telling you - it would be wrong to think so. Because smartness is never built on a relationship. You will not be smart if you have a beautiful lover or a handsome lover by your side. Falling in love with the most popular person on campus may make you feel popular for a while, but it has nothing to do with Smart Ness. Smartness is among you. Others will judge your smartness by relying on your self-esteem.
Smartঃ not on the smartphone
The era is now of smartphones, of Android. Smartphone in hand. The name is a smartphone, so if you have smart in hand - if you have this idea, you must give it up. The name of the phone is a smartphone for its various services and modernity. So if you have a smartphone in hand, you are smart, what could be a more ridiculous idea?
Use a mobile phone facility wisely
Suppose at 1 o'clock at night. You are fast asleep. Isn't it normal for you to be scared if the phone rings suddenly? The phone has become one of the means of communication in our daily lives. So if you call without understanding the time and situation, the perception of people about you may change. Many young people think that chatting on a mobile phone or texting all the time at night seems to be a sign of modernity or smartness. But these things are not smart, but a boring habit.
Personality loss in gossip
Eliminate gossip altogether. It is a habit that is more or less present in all of us. That is to say, a bad behavior must be continued, it is not. Try to change your habits. Remember that the person in front of whom you are gossiping may go to another place and talk about you to another person. And gossiping in front of others only shortens you and your personality, there is no smartness in blaming others.
No one is small if he admits wrong
What went wrong? Acknowledge. Don't blame others. Blaming each other does not mean that what is wrong will be corrected. So without blaming others, try to find out what you have done wrong and correct it. You will not be small. Rather, it is the courage to admit one's mistakes that will make you smart and attractive in the eyes of others.
Not only outside, but also at home to be smart
Many people may be very smart in conversation, smartness is caught in the clothes asha. But he treats his own people very badly. They use bad language, put pressure on their parents, disobey the elders, raise their hands against their siblings or work people. Such a person, no matter what happens, does not claim to be a smart adjective in any way. A person who physically or mentally abuses his family is not smart.
Respect for all
You may not have the bad behaviors described above, but if you do not have a sense of manners or etiquette, then everything will seem superfluous. You will never be considered a smart person if you do not treat adults with respect and treat children with affection. Those who cannot respect others cannot claim any respect for themselves. And a person who cannot earn respect in the eyes of others cannot be identified as a smart person in any way.
Must be smart in using the internet
Most people in our country do not know that there is smartness in using the internet. Nowadays, for the benefit of mobile phones, everyone has access to the internet. But the advantage is not just to use, you have to do it wisely. It is never smart to waste valuable time by reading or chatting with Facebook or any other social networking site day and night because of the availability of the internet. Youth is just as beautiful as its own. So don't force something special on yourself but get rid of the bad habits. And become truly smart.
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