What to do if someone thinks bad about me

Yesterday suddenly I met my childhood friend.  He was standing near his car on the road. When I saw him, I turned around and rode my bike and went to him!  And I asked her condition, then she said in suppressed words that she is fine. She was feeling very upset. It seemed that she was in a big trouble, thinking her heart was unhappy. She was avoiding me.  Was, but I stood about 10 minet the same.  Now what was it neither he was saying nor me.  I asked about his condition but he did not ask for my condition.

I realized that he was thinking that he might leave from here.  I read his mind, and I left.  I was bothered and was also regretting that I might not have met if it was good.  But what could I have done, I would have known in advance that it would have treated me like this, I might not have met it.  After years of looking at the childhood friend I met, I woke up happily, I thought that he might be happy to see me, but it did not happen, he just ignored me.  I was very unhappy, and trying to be myself.  Throughout the day, I did not feel like doing anything, then in the evening I went home and kept thinking about the misbehavior done by the friend.  

That scene was effective on my heart and mind.  Then the mother put food and asked me to eat food.  I did not eat food, then Mataji said what happened?  You did not eat today  What do you worry about?  I did not answer, and went straight to my bedroom.  After a while Ma came to me and started asking what happened to you.  I saw that there was great sadness on Mother's face, then I told the whole thing to Mother.  After listening to all, Ma said that maybe your friend is in some trouble.  You should not take this thing to heart.  I smiled at Ma's comfort, and said okay I am sleepy now.  The mother left now, but that meeting of the friend was not leaving me.  It was 11 o'clock in the night, suddenly I received a call, which I felt very bad to see. That phone was from someone else, not my childhood friend.  As soon as I picked up the phone, how did he say friend?  I said, but you should not do me.  He said what is the matter, then I said that I am very sad at the moment because of your misbehavior, so you do not talk to me.  

Then the friend said that I had asked you for some help, but you did not help me when you could have helped me.  I said that you had a misunderstanding, in fact I could help you at that time.  Now after a long debate in both of us, everything became the same.  Then the friend told that your neighbor was saying that you deserve my help, then I got angry with you without knowing the truth.  Then he told me sorry, and the next day we called him on a coffee soap.  We got good relations again with people.  Then he said go home and say hello to mother.  In this way, because of misunderstandings, no one knows how many relationships are broken, so we should not be angry with ourselves after coming under misunderstanding.

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