How to build confidence

Do you really believe in the word 'perfection'? Are you trying hard to be perfect? How long will you do that? I guess till your death because perfection does not exist. Nothing is perfect. There is no scale that measures the magnitude of perfection. Perfection has never been defined. You can never unlock the door of perfection when the door itself doesn't exist. You can be better but never perfect. Its high time the phrase 'Practice makes a man perfect' corrected to ' Practice makes a man better'.

This state of betterment will eventually lead you to success but this can be achieved only if you have the inner peace of mind. The greatest obstacle to your way to success is your inner self. The endless conflict with your inner self is the biggest force that pulls you back. The fuel to this conflict is your overthinking. This overthinking arises from your nature of self-doubting. If you are not in a position to trust yourself, you will get into an argument with yourself which would eventually end up in a conversation that will make you feel like you are not capable of anything, which will break your confidence.

There are people who laugh at you, tease you and make fun of you, but they don't have a say in how you should feel. When you focus on something and hold it tight in your mind no one can shatter you. There is a famous African proverb ' When there is no enemy within, the enemy outside can cause no harm'. Hard Times make you stronger. Bad past is always the best teacher we can ever have. The only thing you have to admit is that bad times will come and you have to go through it. Never let it come on your way. All the things that you think you have lost, whether it be money, fame, power, etc, all these are not life but they are just a part of life. All these are what you have earned by your hard work. Still, you have the same time and potential with you with which you can once again start from the beginning. You can't turn your face to the fact that hard times won't stay, they'll pass. The thing you should hold tight is your faith in yourself. Each failure will make you one step closer to success.

Menting yourself in a way that no one ever can rule your mind is the best way to face the negatives. It's your life and it is your mind who has the ultimate power of governing you. Let the desperate time come, but you will not quit. Once you've quit you can never make up your mind back to normal. Everyday is a new beginning, so leave behind the bad past and look forward to your life. You being in dark doesn't mean that light doesn't exist..it's you who is in dark and finding the light is up to you. Success won't come to us that easy. If you really need it, all the struggles and failures that you have to go through will never matter to you. If success is a building, faith is the basement, and failures are the bricks. Believe in the immense power of your mind, success is yours.

 

 

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