I heard a story about a closed circus. Then arises a question of what to do with the circus animals. With that in mind, the owner decided to release all the circus animals back into the wild. And as planned, all the animals were left in the forest. There were also four tigers in it. A few days later, it was learned that the hounds in the forest had hunted the four tigers together. The tiger is the king of the jungle. His strength is such that even his simple fear shakes the forest. Even so, how could a hound kill a tiger? Why did this happen? What seemed impossible was possible. You may have heard this story too. This story is very touching. All four tigers were in the circus for a long time. There they were getting regular meals. They had no desire to hunt and eat meat. They used to eat the meal that came in front of me on time and relax. When the circus was going on, they used to dance to the beat of the ringmaster. That's all they had to do. The opposite was true of the hound. They never got to eat rectangular meat. All they had to do is the hunt. So the hounds were able to hunt those tigers.
This means that we have to decide how much we should give to our children and how much they should get for themselves. Many parents think that our children should not be deprived of anything. So everything should be done for them. With this mentality, they make everything rectangular for the children and leave nothing for the children to do. Then such children go ahead and become ineffective. Become incompetent. On the contrary, children who have grown up in poverty since childhood try hard to get what they want. The situation is similar to that of the circus tigers and the wild hounds mentioned above.
I remember a nice sentence I heard about child-rearing. If you really want your child to be capable, then why spend so much on them? In the future, they will do it themselves. And if, as expected, the child does not go out of the way, then what is the point of saving wealth for them? In the end, they will not waste it all. You will actually see the above in many places as an example. You will see many examples around you that the parents are very rich, but the children became inactive and squandered all the wealth accumulated by the parents. On the contrary, there are many instances where children who did not get even a single meal properly as a child learned a lot spontaneously and became rich.
Every parent wants their son or daughter to be a great person and make them proud, But it requires that they be properly nurtured. Rather than giving them everything in hand, train them on how to get it. When children learn to get everything they want, they will know the value. So when children are stubborn, don't give them all their stubbornness. Let them know that not everything is easy here. So you have to struggle to get those things. So, where will that stubbornness form in their minds? And the kids will start trying. So when they grow up, they will get the success they want. Otherwise, it will not take long for your children to become like tigers in the forest.
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