What is Confidence
Every kid is Shy and innocent in some amount; all we need to understand is their personality and true behavior.
It's so easy these days to build confidence in a kid; by many online methods, we can build our confidence easily.
When I was a small kid, even I use to avoid new people and stay alienated the time; at those times, my mother used to force me to go to a basketball club.
I use to go while crying, but gradually, all become normal, and I grew up with new friendships there. Soon I became interested in going to that basketball club as I was having my friends there.. but at many new places where I don't know anyone, I usually avoid that places and stay alienated everywhere as of my lack of confidence.
But Everywhere my mother uses to force me to go and... Now I can understand what She had done was just the best thing. 😌
She knew that I would cry at those times, but it will fetch me with good qualities later on. So you all must learn a thing from my experience that we must face the things which make us feared. Gradually all will become a part of life hence by building our Confidence.
Self-confident people seem at ease with themselves and their work. They invite trust and inspire confidence in others. These are all attractive characteristics to have.
But it's not always easy to be confident in yourself, particularly if you're naturally self-critical or if other people put you down. Thankfully, there are steps you can take to increase and maintain your self-confidence.
Self-confidence means trusting in your own judgment, capacities, and abilities. It's about valuing yourself and feeling worthy, regardless of any imperfections or what others may believe about you.
Self-efficacy and self-esteem are often used interchangeably with self-confidence. But they are subtly different.
We gain a sense of self-efficacy when we see ourselves mastering skills and achieving goals. This encourages us to believe that we'll succeed if we learn and work hard in a particular area. This type of confidence leads people to accept difficult challenges and keep going in the face of setbacks.
One of the earliest measures of self-confidence used a 12-point scale centered on zero, ranging from a minimum score characterizing someone who is “timid and self-distrustful, Shy, never makes decisions, self-effacing” to an upper extreme score representing someone who is “able to make decisions, absolutely confident and sure of his own decisions and opinions.”
Some have measured self-confidence as a simple construct divided into affective and cognitive components: anxiety as an affective aspect and self-evaluations of proficiency as a cognitive component.
The more context-based Personal Evaluation Inventory (PEI), developed by Shrauger (1995), measures specific self-esteem and self-confidence in different aspects (speaking in public spaces, academic performance, physical appearance, romantic relationships, social interactions, athletic ability, and general self-confidence score.
Here are those master points which helps in building the confidence of a boy/girl
1) believe in what your parents tell U to do.
2) don't worry about any new situations. Just face it!
3) till your parents are with you, you will face no problems 😊
4) try to stay Confidence dude.. in any Situations
Thank you
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