What are the Essentials of Individual Personality?

According to Japanese literature, each human has three kinds of personalities one that individual shows to society, another to his family, and last his own what that person is. It might be these different modes are due to several factors discussed below.

1. ETHICS

Ethics is the science of the habitual conduct of human beings. Habits are the expression of settled disposition of the will or character. Character is the permanent habit of willing the inner bent of the mind, which is expressed in the habitual conduct. Character is the inner counterpart of the conduct, which is the outer expression. Ethics is the study of what is right or wrong in human conduct or the science of the ideal involved in human life. To educate a man in mind, but not in moral, is to create a menace to society.

2. HUMAN VALUES

Values are generally learned in the process of socialization right from his/her childhood. Though internalization of values happens throughout a lifetime, it is more rapid in the early stages. Values are usually shaped by many different internal and external influences, including family, traditions, culture, and more recently, media and the internet. A person will filter these influences and meld them into unique values set that may differ from the values set of others in the same culture.

3. ATTITUDE

Attitude can be defined as evaluation - positive or negative regarding ideas, objects, actions, people, events, or concepts. The Evaluation need not always be positive or negative; it can also be uncertain. Attitude can also be viewed as an expression of favor or disfavor towards a person, place, things, events, ideas, or concepts. Attitude is a psychological tendency expressed by evaluating a particular entity with some degree of favor or disfavors. The favor and disfavors are not poling apart but form a continuum. On one end, it is extremely favorable, and on the other end, it is extremely unfavorable, and it can be moderate in the middle.

4. EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE (EI)

The fact is everyone is emotionally intelligent to some degree, but whether you choose to act with EI depends on whether you believe in value your feelings and on whether you understand the impact EI has on your life today. Acting with EI is the way to enhance your personal performance and to succeed when working with others. Emotional intelligence is about understanding one's own emotional impulses and handling them to enhance self-performance and relationships with others.

EI is related to one's own ability to manage emotions oneself and managing emotions in relationships with others. The emotions prepare the body to act in a manner that may be beneficial /detrimental to the situation. Emotions are the helping to learn, enhance memory and motivate one in achieving the best performance. Emotions give a situation meaning. Without emotions, you would react spontaneously and robotically to events around you, with no control over your response. Having emotions means new information received is assessed and evaluated about your past experiences and desire.