The concept of Soul mate, throughout history has always been a confusion and mystery. People still think either the concept of soul mate really exist or it's just a myth. Different people have different perspective regarding the soul mates and are subject to needs, wants, desires and choices. People wonder if the soul mates exist, how to find them and have them in their lives as their soul mates.But never forget that you both are two different individuals having diverse expectations from each other. You can transform a person by influencing him or her but cannot change the person by force, which is the actual beauty of being in a relationship. Once you find him or her, grab hold and do not let them go, let them be happy and whole with you.