Do something wonderfully thoughtful and out of the normal and try to incorporate an element of surprise to it, a loving note put into a pocket.
Call them every day just to touch base for a few minutes. Make their favorite meal once a week. Once they begin to expect these things, you will always be close to their awareness.
New couples seem to do this naturally, but do not drop this strong behavior just because the relationship has progressed. This is one way to keep the romance alive.
Make it clear that pleasure is your pleasure and you want to discover everything about what turns them on. They will be happy to have you experiment with them while making love.
Similarly, making you happy will make your partner feel good. And research shows that the sexual pleasure of one partner increases the pleasure of the other partner.
When things get boring and routine, there is not going to be as much of a hormonal reaction and stimulation is lessened. While you do not have to break out the whips and chains, a little innovation while you are making love can increase anticipation.
If you get your partner's herat rate up, they may subordinate the feeling of excitement with you and may develop more powerful feelings for you. Going on a roller-coaster ride, taking a balloon trip, shooting the rapids-anything with a touch of danger to it-can make them fall more deeply in love with you.
If you show kindness and love for someone they love, you will earn major points. When you enter a relationship, you also enter a relationship with all their family and friends. Show them that the people who are important to them are important to you.
Do not be afraid to give voice to your love. Tell them how you feel. Write a loving note or poem. Lovers have been doing this from the beginning of time because it works.
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