In the name of all fathers

In the name of all fathers ! Dear brother I am a father and I want to talk to many fathers like me, so I am writing this letter. I want to tell you my importance and also throw some light on your mistakes. I am sure that you will understand my point and follow it as I be- lieve that no relation is more sensible than this one.We, fathers are more sensible and logical than any other rela- tions. Recently, the result of the examination of the children was announced. Many childrens’fathers were happy, fathers of many chil- dren became angry And many fathers are still sulking with their long faces, as if they have been defeated in the battle of life because their children didn’t score well. Do you know that - Family begins with you . There is a circle of happiness that starts from you and ends up to you. This is for every father who is responsible for the happi- ness in his family. It is also for every father who is least bothered about his family and does not consider his family as family. He will be behaving well with the whole world, but his family . I had read somewhere One should Love or help only them who need it, other- wise it becomes flattery. So, my dear friends who are a father by their virtues, I plead you not to get it wasted by your anger and indiffer- ence to them. You are a guide , you are a counsellor and a guide or a counsellor never blame his client for how he is. He will only guide him in a sympathetic way .You are a doctor for any of your children’s emotional, mental ail- ments. Let me illustrate this with an incident . A doctor and his friend were going after a late night party. It was night time and they had an argument in the middle that they should reach home through a short cut road which was deserted all the time and the friend of the doc- tor wanted to go from the same road to reach early and finally the doctor reluctantly agreed and they both took took the same deserted way. A gang of thieves was also out. They saw that they could get money from both of them. And they looted them and thrashed both of them till they fell uncon- scious and left . After a while when the doctor came to his senses, he started first aid treatment of his friend. He did not accuse him of this situation . TYPE TO ENTER A CAPTION. He silently nursed him and did the needful. He went ahead and forgot the blame game. He tried to improve the deteriorating situation without holding the grudge or repeating the same thing again and again.In the same way, Every person in the family has an influence in the life of children and the father affects the most. No one likes the Person who don’t respect his family . If you walk with some handicapped person by giving him your support, the world will salute you But if you support a strong man, the world will laugh at you . (Give more love and support to your weak children) I want to say here that hatred is like unwanted weed which grows in a beautiful garden of love and if the weeds are not removed timely ,it will spoil the beautiful garden of your family. If we do not keep the offertory ,( our Children)well and despise them ,then don’t you think that it is a dishonour to our great God ? God also gets disappointed and then denies him for every happiness that he deserves. Let's get a friendship band . Let’s introspect - How many times have we sat and talked peacefully? How happy is the whole family? Why can't we live like a beautiful family? Why we are running away from each other and despis- ing our children because they didn’t score well in the board examination ? Why can't we sit and talk to our children as where is the problem and how can we help them out ? Love is a simple thing, it is like a beautiful aroma which can be felt without being seen. Let’s savour the offertory of God . Let us spread happiness So let us now wake up from slumber and embrace our family with love. Lovingly take a first step Try to live for your children, not for yourself. Happiness is waiting for you at the next turn. I know that many of my friends love their family but I am talking about some families who are starving for their meal of love. Lets treat our family with great sumptuous meal full of love ,honour and respect . Now I end this letter I hope you will answer my letter, by saving your family with love. Only your One father brother Love.