How to talk anyone

I Feel like one of the essential life skills in the world is how you deal with people, how you can have a conversation with absolutely anyone even if you have met them for the first time irrespective of who they are, and it's one of those life skills that they don't teach you in any school.

 

 

Getting to the first point you need to understandwhat people are drawn to remember human beings are hard-wired to be drawn to people who radiate positivity so the first step in having a conversation with absolutely anyone is making them feel a little bit comfortable and creating a certain level of trust in that person now one of the hacks to creat a certain level of trust is always

 

holding a slight smile on your face you go into any party, you go to any situation you kind of need to aviod the resting , so resting is where people in any case they'll always have kind of a frown on their face like even if they're walking on the road they'll walk with a smirk that frown unknowingly gives out a bad image of that person people start perceving you as someone they can't trust entireiy and that's the firest thing you need to avoid in any party you go to always hold a bit of a smile on your face it draws people towards you so once people have been drawn towards you what's the next step and this is wher the following two points come in.

 

 

Secondly, body language that is a very underrated skill in the world, and it is also something you can almost manipulate people that is to make people more comfortable and having the internal ability to converse with absolutely anyone and body language is a huge factor in gaining someone's trust, so body language is broken down into two parts lousy body language and right body language.

 

 

Whenever you're going into a conversation with someone be completely open minded have the ability inside you to accept whatever that person is saying when you have that absolute zero level of judgment or judgey ness inside you people are going to remember you for that and when we're talking about peopie skills it's all about building these relationships remeber people to forget everything you said to them everything your've done to them but people will never forget how you made them feel and if your're able to have a conversation with someone

 

 

where you make them feel like you're a right person and you mean no harm to them when you're not judjingthem for anything people take that away from you and your network bills and this obviousiy has a carrier to other things remeber you know we're talking about something like business more than your own skills it's about how you network with people and a big part of networking is not just going into conversation with the intention to do businessor to make contacts it's about making the other person feei like they mean something to you that's what you've got to take away from this.