How To Be A Good Friend?? Who Is Your Friend?

Are you in confusion - about he/she is your friend or not? Let's clear it. A friend is a well-wisher. Friendship is a pain killer. Just like how medicine can cure the pain and protect us from disease, the same way a friend can protect us from bad habits or bad situations, and they can promote our good habits and lead us to a good path.

Everybody is not your friend. Just because they hang out around you and laugh with you doesn't mean that they are always there for you. So, know your circle and provide more attention to a friend who is true to you. "A friend in need is a friend indeed," which means a friend accepts you who you are, also helps you to become who you should be. But they never support you when you are wrong, they never take you on the wrong path, and they never motivate you when you make mistakes.

If he or she is trying to correct your mistakes, definitely he or she is your friend. You are blessed to have such a person as a friend in your life. There is no differentiation in a friendship like a good friend, bad friend, best friend, a close friend, or thick friend. Friend means they should be only good.

Because, in my opinion, they are considered second parents and second siblings; to someone, they may become a life partner. So, friendship is an important supporting system in our life. So, it should be pure and real always. Do not search for your friend only to fulfill your needs at your difficult times. Also, reach them when they are in a difficult situation.

Friendship never comes based on skin color or family status. It is beyond color, religion, language, appearance, family background, or status. It involves understanding one's mind and having love, honesty, strictness, and compassion. "One book is equal to hundred good friends, and a friend is equal to a library (Dr. A.P.J. Abdul Kalam)." So it's clear that - friendship is an important tool to improve the knowledge of your life.

When you have done something wrong, even if you get slapped by a friend, do not be angry for that, do not worry about that, do not ignore that person; instead, be happy and be with them, then you and your life will be safe. Because at that time you can see your parents inside them. Most of us spend our time with our friends more than our parents. So, a friend can read us well more than our parents. So, when parents fail to save us, in place of them, a friend can do it. That's why I define 'Friend as  a second parent.'

Friendship is not only about sharing happy moments; it also shares a shoulder during tragic events. It doesn't contain jealousy; it always cheers up your success.

I hope you have a friend and now you can understand him/her. Also, you can understand about yourself that you are a good friend or not. If you do not have such a person, don't worry, you will find your friend soon, and then share your friendship and be a good friend!