HOW A TEENAGER FEELS

I am student and my life was carrying a burden of studies and pressure of my parents. One day I was at college And I was the boy who was bullied each and every time by my friends, but at Sometimes there were few friends of mine which understands me, but it's obvious that they will be not with me for 24 hours. And my life was being normal with me but after few months my father lost his job at the age 50 and after that my father was literally jobless for that whole year he was willing to provide us, but he couldn't because no one wants to give job to a 50-year-old man and that 1 year was very difficult for me because I am a student I have to study and in that situation I also have to provide my family. So I was feeling very miserable all at once. I also get to know that no relative will help your family in that situation. My scheduled was fully tight at early in morning 6 am to go gym,9am-5pm college,6pm to 8:30pm classes,10pm Studying and taking nap.

So In this busy scheduled I just couldn't provide to my family and in these worst case your father is taking loan and sending you to study. And one more thing that no one is around you so that you can share your typical mindset with anybody. While going through all this I think around 6 months of that bad year I got Into depression and at that point I was like I am a loser, I am a failure just couldn't do anything for my family And then I just decided that I won't die like this I will provide my family And then I started finding online jobs And also skipping college. So I can at last provide something And then I found a job in the mart near to my house, but my parents just didn't know about my job And suddenly one day my father came into the store to buy some groceries And he saw me And at that point he just froze and didn't say anything but when I came home he just told me that you should focus on your studies And he will definitely find a new job for sure. And then I provided something to my family and in the end finally my father got job and now my family is finally happy.

So last but not the least I would like to add that just always try to understand the feelings of a teenager whether it will be your son, daughter or friend.

You should always tell your son or daughter to do whatever they want to do or whatever they just want to be. You should never put parental pressure on your child and always talk with your son or daughter that whether their mindset is ok or not.