Introversion is basically the ability to be reticent and shy. In the broader version, introverted people tend to be concerned with their own affairs rather than external things. They do not seek special attention or social engagements as these events can leave introverts exhausted and uneasy. Living an introverted life is not as simple as it seems and brings many headaches in a trivial life. They might find normal and daily stuff very hectic and difficult, which might be of simple nature for other people. Here are five such elements of an introverted life which cause them to feel reserved or drained:
1. MAKING FRIENDS:
An introverted person's social circle is minimal, as they find it very complicated to make friends. One of the reasons for this is their inability to initiate a conversation with a stranger. Another way to look at this might be attributed to the fact that they feel very reserved when a stranger has to share their personal space and might be able to get to know their personal affairs. Being an introvert brings a very complicated nature, which makes them difficult to understand and be approached.
2. LOW ON LOVE LIFE:
An introvert is often perceived as one who remains quiet and thoughtful and is with themselves. The major element in their love life is the certitude that they would want the other person to express their feelings rather than approaching their crush with an optimistic approach even if they like someone. The fear of the unknown (might be rejection) comes in their way when they think of expressing their feelings. Introverts are low on dating, and this is the reason why it is that way. You may never notice an introvert having a lot of Girlfriends/Boyfriends in their love life; however, you might observe them having a lot of crushes.
3. EXPRESSING THEIR OPINION
Introverts are reluctant to express their opinion even if they have one when they are a part of a group discussion. Being shy and withdrawn would tend to hold them back into their minds as people would question their stance to which they would not have a proper justification. It is like the fear of counter questions. They feel like people in the group would lower their value by question their opinion and would eventually turn into a shameful reminder for the rest of their life.
4. SUSCEPTIBLE TO DEPRESSION:
Introverts are open to going into depression more often when they are met with minor hurdles in their daily lives. Being not recognized at their university, not scoring good marks, being late at an event, being scolded by their parents, and many other trivial events of a very minute nature can lead to anxiety and stagnation if you are an introvert. Henceforth, introverted people need to be treated with sensitivity and utmost courtesy in terms of their isolated and bizarre nature because your ordinary interaction might be of big implications for introverts.
5. RELUCTANT TO ASK FOR HELP:
If you are an extrovert, you might analyze a problem and allocate it to your friends for timely execution. This is not the case with introverts. Indeed it is the opposite. Introverts are likely to be self-reliant and want to do it by themselves rather than asking for help. The motive for this behavior is not only because they want to be on their own but also because they find it extremely hectic for outsiders to be involved in their own affairs as this act might be turned into a social favor afterward, and they would also have to indulge into their friend's activities.
Hence, being an introvert is not easy. Introverted people are mostly isolated and secluded as compared to extroverts. Their peculiar characteristics need to be understood and hence dealt with accordingly. An event of slight and insignificant nature might be of great value for a person of an introverted identity.
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