Are we caring for children on the right path?

I really wonder how we bring up our child. my cousin's son of 6 years when stepping up the stairs will be avoided by his grandpa,  will be guided a lot by her grandma while getting down the stairs and will be avoided by his father when going out the the the the door and also will be surrounded by her mother and elder sister when doing any other work. Of course, it's true to care for our child but not to that extent where he loses his self-confidence and ability to make his own decisions. Love towards our children is good but the love that makes the child become blind about his future is really negativistic parenting. This type of over caring for children usually happens in sophisticated, dangerously in educated families.

  I do remember a story read somewhere about Ten Singh who climbed Mount Everest at the age of 40. For every achievement when we look inside we find motivation and motivation. In the same way, Tensing, when asked by an interviewer about his achievement really astonishing statement, was given by Tensingh that motivation for his achievement was none other than his mother and continuing his words in the interview he stated that " physically I climbed,t Everest at age of 40, bur mentally I climb the Everest when I was a child by the motivating words of my mother". when she said, "son till now nobody has climbed the Everest will you achieve this".Then I started and now I reached my aim. The astonishing point Is that Tensingh'ss mother never got schooling, never brought up in a sophisticated family,  never attended any motivational classes to bring up a child but still, he became a good achiever and is remembered by the whole world.  But the question in my mind always probs to think, I inspireiteiteknowledge parenting classes, motivational classes, education, we never come out of our wrong way of bringing up our child and be one among the society to miss guide our own children, in creating his interest towards increasing his bank balance but failed to educate him to raise his balance of ethics, values, and confidence. so we being parents should at least know minimum knowledge of leading children towards a meaningful life and a meaningful lifestyle. Being parents we should not make our children spend half of their life repenting about their parenting so let's start our children to train for there parenthood.

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