Lili, who lives on the 3rd floor, has recently been complained by neighbors downstairs. Because the two-year-old son Xiaodou Ding recently liked to throw things, squatting bells, noisy neighbors underneath can not be peaceful.
Lily is quite a headache for this matter. The small bean squash rolls a small one, so a little child always throws things, is it already a tendency to have a temper?
But think about it carefully, sometimes when the child throws things, the mood is bright. The son raised a smiling face, but violently put everything on the ground, toys, bottles, keys... all the things he moved into the house were thrown on the ground.
In addition to the pain of re-purchasing items, Lili is more distressed by children and family.
One time the son broke the water cup, and the small ankle was smashed with pieces of glass, and it was only half a month to raise it. Another time, Dowding threw the toy car to Dad. Her husband didn't respond for a while, and his eyes were blushing.
Lili said: "I have also educated my education. Although he doesn't necessarily understand it, the expression can always be understood. I have tried the spanking, but this child is so skinny, so I can't change the bad."
Baby likes to throw things; this must be a temperament performance?
The younger the children, the more they behave beyond the understanding of adults. For example, the same is to throw things, some children simply feel fun, some babies are to attract the attention of adults, and some are angry, and throw things as a way to retaliate and vent.
At the age of the baby, the muscles of the body, and the activeness of their thinking have been greatly improved. For them, throwing things is an important way to exercise muscles and thinking.
For example, if the bouncy ball falls on the ground, it will bounce. The table tennis ball will make a "ping-pong" sound on the wall, and the plush toy will be thrown to other children, and the other party will be pleased.
In this process, the child is playing middle school, not a bad fault.
In addition to paying attention to the safety of children, parents can give appropriate guidance and affirmation to help their baby grow up in a relaxed and enjoyable process. In order not to disturb the people, parents can lay a soft floor mat to reduce noise in the area where children play.
It is worth noting that as the child grows up, parents also need to dilute his behavior of throwing things deliberately. Sometimes the more parents preach, the more the child will treat the bad as a measure to attract the attention of the parents, but strengthen the behavior.
Older children, if they want to attract the attention of their parents, they need to pay more attention to their needs.
On the one hand, you can't respond to the first time your child tries to get attention. Even if the mother is severe criticism, or spanking to show punishment, the baby will default to his actions of hitting things.
On the other hand, parents also need to pay attention to why children want to attract attention, because there are too few opportunities to go out and go crazy, or the child has not yet developed the habit of building blocks or flipping pictures. Don't underestimate this habit; he is inseparable from the child's attention.
If the child is thinking of falling things as a way to vent their emotions, such as throwing things while crying or deliberately breaking something after being criticized, parents need to intervene in the child's feelings.
While parents fully express their love, do you need to let your baby realize that his current mood is lost, wronged, or angry? Only by fully understanding their emotions can the baby learn to control their feelings and change the bad habits of falling things radically.
There are many reasons why children can beat things. Parents must not make a conclusion based on the understanding of adults.
In addition to paying attention to safety and avoiding family members being injured and injured by their belongings, parents also need to rationally analyze different mentalities and motivations behind the same behavioral model.
In the face of any trouble, parents must fully express love is the first step to do. Let the children feel the spiritual support from the family, can help them shape the habits well, cultivate the hearty, healthy, and happy growth!
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