"I don't know how".
"It probably wouldn't have worked anyways"
"I'm too busy"
How often do you catch yourself making excuses. Instead of doing something you came up with ways to explain your inaction. Excuse makers are usually seen as lazy, weak or coward.
I believe this is an unfair generalization. We all make excuses once in a while. Sometimes we make excuses and other times we stop rationalizing and tale action.
I m sure most of us can remember times when we procrastinated and wasted days before starting a project. I am also sure most of us can remember times we started immediately and finished ahead of schedule. The differences between these two cases could be described as a difference of willpower. When you procrastinate, you lose willpower. But that isn't helpful. If willpower is outside your direct control, then claiming willpower as a solution is not going to work. Instead I believe that the answer to stop making excuses lies has two steps:
1- ORGANISE YOUR PRIORITIES
2- BREAKING LARGE, UNCOMFORTABLE STEPS INTO MANAGEABLE PIECES.
Success is something which everybody wants through the fields are different. Every person has different meanings of success. For one person, the success could define in making more and more money. For other person, the success could be making other person happy. There are different goals which everybody sets for their success. But excuses always come in their way which stop them to reach their goals. It is very important to understand that making excuse and staying in the comfort zone could make a person lazy and unsuccessful in their lifes. And one day come in our life when we think that if we had done some work and pushed our limits thn the situation would be different. So keep doing work and keep pushing yourself... One day you will feel proud of yourself and will tell others about your journey. And trust me that is the best feeling.
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