1.Boosting Confidence
Overcome your fear. Fear is your biggest hindrance. It makes the easiest tasks and simplest actions seem impossible. Talking to a lady can be easy, and your fear is tricking you into believing a worst-case scenario that is unlikely. Most women will be flattered by your approach, so taking action can work in your favor.The chances of getting slapped, scolded, ridiculed by her friends, or any other scenario are extremely rare.
Calm your nerves. When you get in your own head, you avoid being outgoing and linger on being nervous. Focusing on something such as telling yourself "don't be nervous" would only make you feel worse. Instead, learn to recognize the physical symptoms of being nervous; then, you'll be able to gain control over them. When your heart races and your breath become short, stop and control your breathing pattern. To relax, breathe in for about 3 to 4 seconds and release the breath for the same amount of time. Doing this for a few minutes will ease your body from anxious nerves.
Remain in a positive state of mind. Being positive and confident are not innate; they can be learned.[3] Focus on the better outcomes. You shouldn't try things to fail—you choose them for success. Imagine the worthwhile outcomes when you talk to a woman at the mall or in line at the bistro counter. You are only a few words away from a phone number, a date, or a story to tell.
Create strong body language. If you are communicating with someone, non-verbal cues will send the first message. When you speak to a lady for the first time, send a signal of intrigue before saying a word. Make some changes in your body language that say you are open, inviting, and confident.
- Use a strong posture. Keeping your shoulders back and chest out demonstrates a confident stance.
- Smile. People who have a good time smile, and the more you smile, the more you'll feel better about every situation.
- Make eye contact. Meeting eyes with whomever you speak with projects confidence.
- Leave your hands out of your pockets. No need to constantly check your cell phone; that will only create more nervous feelings.
Stay well put together. Looking good means feeling good, so don't ignore taking care of yourself. Keep up with practical grooming habits such as regular haircuts, facial hair trimming, and cleaning up before heading out. Moreover, maintain a nice wardrobe, which could mean occasionally buying some new articles of clothing. When it comes to meeting someone new, attraction is the key.
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